Have you ever noticed how some people seem to live a charmed life? Opportunities, richness, and abundance just seem to come naturally to them. Dream job, dream guy, dream wardrobe, dream apartment, and the list goes on.
You can’t help but wonder, “what’s wrong with me?” “Why can’t I too live a life I love?”
It’s not you, it’s them.
Attracting a dream life doesn’t happen by accident. What seems effortless is really a matter of clear intention and the power of belief. We can all be dream life magnets if we commit to approaching life in a certain way.
How to Become a Dream Life Magnet in 3 Steps
1. Observe and monitor your thoughts
The most powerful action you can take is to observe and monitor your thoughts. Your thoughts are what shape how you show up and interact with the world around you. Your thoughts have a very strong energy. Use the power of thought to your advantage, and you will always manifest what you want in life.
- Observe your thoughts. What comes up? What beliefs are holding you back from receiving what you want?
- Re-frame negative thoughts into positive thoughts as much as possible. Hold on to the positive thought for 30 seconds.
- Feel the energy of positive thoughts. What will you feel like when you receive what you want. Embody that energy as much as possible.
“All that we are is the result of what we have thought. The mind is everything. What we think we become.” – Buddha
2. Express authentic gratitude
Gratitude is the key to maintaining a positive frame of mind. When we are thankful for what we already have, we are open to receiving more abundance. If you want more, but you don’t already appreciate what you have it is difficult to attract more. Positive energy attracts more positive.
- Express authentic gratitude. In order for you to shift from negative to positive, your gratitude practice must be authentic. What are you thankful for and why? Really focus on the abundance you already have.
- Practice gratitude all day, every day. Don’t limit your gratitude practice to a ritual you have once or twice a day. Try being thankful without ceasing. Everything you experience is a blessing in some way.
- Express gratitude before you receive. The key to getting what you want is feeling like you already have it. Express gratitude for everything that is on its way to you.
3. Allow yourself to receive
It sounds crazy, but often what holds us back from living a dream life is ourselves. We block abundance, opportunities, love, you name it. You aren’t shy about wishing for more, and yet deep down you don’t think you are worthy of receiving it. You have limiting beliefs about money, success, love, and friendship that cause you to resist what is there for the taking.
- Believe you are deserving. You have to believe deep down that you deserve everything the Universe has to offer you. There is enough abundance to go around, and the more abundance you have the more you can share with others. You cannot express your truth from a feeling of lack. Remember that.
- Live as though you already have what you want. Imagine what it would be like to have what you want, and start feeling that energy now. Are you wanting more success? Show up as the successful person you want to be. Dress the part. Set yourself up for success.
- Take inspired action. You don’t have to strive and struggle to get what you want, but you do have to open up the pathway to receive it. Take action that feels light, not heavy. Provide the channel for you to receive everything you’ve dreamed about.
Congrats lovely, you are a dream magnet!
You do not have to compete with everyone else to live the life of your dreams. There is plenty of abundance for every person. We are all deserving! Set the intention for what you want to happen and hold that thought as much as possible. Express gratitude for everything you already have, and take inspired action. If you follow those exact steps, I guarantee that you will be a magnet for everything you want.